7 biggest fears, dreams killers to avoid and make your dream a reality.

 Success is not an accident. Failure is not a mistake. “Anyone who has reached any great heights in life did so because they did things differently to the majority.” The majority do not reach any great height because they do things the same as everyone else. “As a society we are conditioned to believe in what we see and experience around us the most. We are conditioned to believe in the opinions and limitations of those closest to us.” It’s time to break the mold, it’s time to avoid the biggest dreams killers and begin learning how to make a dream a reality.

  Here are the 7 biggest dream killers you should avoid at all cost.

The fear of failure: This is perhaps the biggest dream killer of all. Ironically, those who don’t take action because of fear of failure, fail by default because they are living a life they do not want to live, a life less than their potential. Failure is nothing compared with the feeling of regret. Worst case scenario, you learn a big lesson and grow from the experience. Keep going until you achieve and grow.

The fear of success: Most people don’t reach the height they know they are capable of because of the fear that they will be left out if they achieve it. If no one around you has achieved at high level, there may be a fear of not fit in with the crowd. Success can be a lonely road; courage is often needed to endure the judgment and feeling of not fitting in.

Lack of work ethnic: If you aren’t prepared to work for your dream, you will never live it. Nothing worthwhile in this world will come without big effort. Are you willing to put the work required to get to your dreams?

Excuses:  You can have results or excuses, but you can’t have both. Successful people take ownership of their success and their failures. If it doesn’t work out, ask yourself how you can do it better next time. If it doesn’t work out, don’t give up, Work Harder. Try a different approach, do whatever it takes to get to your destination.

Toxic Influences:  

Family, friends they all mean well but often they can impose their perceived limitations on you. Just because they couldn’t do it doesn’t mean you can’t. Just because no one in the family has been successful before, doesn’t mean you can’t be the first. Respect everyone’s opinion but believe in God because his thought towards you are the thoughts of good and not of evil to give you an expected end.

Lack of discipline:  Discipline and consistency are traits of winners and all successful people. Every-now-and-then is not good enough. You must be committed to work on your dreams and goals every single day and make it more important than all those insignificant things that hold you back from success.

Unwilling to learn and grow: successful people all have one thing in common: they are life time learners:- as warren buffet once said, “The more you learn the more you earn.” Never stop educating yourself on a range of topics, developing your skills and growing into the person you know you can become.

Remember: If you want success you can have it, but it comes with a price. Learn and model the most successful people you resonate with.  Avoid the people you least want to be like and avoid doing things they do.